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You noticed her — probably because of the fiery glow she emits when she smiles, now that she is learning to be happy again. There is a mystery in it that you just can’t quite put your finger on it. It’s not that she doesn’t want to let you down, it’s just that she worked so hard to get where she is now that she has become very selective about who she will let into her life. If you are the one she lets through her walls, please read on.

She was destroyed by someone who promised her the world…


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Going through a breakup is never easy. Even if you know something is wrong in the relationship, the end of the relationship is hardly the first thing you think of. Most of the time, one believes that it is just a bad, but temporary phase and that we will come out of this relationship crisis even stronger and with more love for one another. Even if you realize that the problems are a little deeper and bigger when you love each other, you want to try to save the relationship first. Some even try couples therapy.

When it comes to…


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Possible reasons you’re single Of course, there are so many reasons why someone is single. But when you have the desire to be in a relationship and you fail, you have to try to find out what the background is. I have here for you the most common reasons why one is single despite the wish. Along with every reason, I have also prepared advice on how you can change this situation.

1. Fear of commitment Do you know the feeling that you want a relationship but at the same time reject any possibility for one? Or is a non-binding…


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A consolation or real love? There are many reasons someone might find someone new immediately after a breakup, and one of them is that it’s just a comforting relationship. I’m sure that you, or at least one of your friends, have been in a position to make a new boyfriend after the breakup at least once, just to take your mind off the ex-boyfriend.

A good thing with all of this is that your ex may also be in a temporary comfort relationship and haven’t gotten over the breakup with you yet. Here are some of the signs that his…


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On social media platforms like Facebook, there is other information about us that we can share with friends, but also with strangers, as well as our relationship status. Among the options that Facebook gives us, such as forgiven, single, divorced and the like, is also the “It’s complicated” option .

A relationship status like single or forgiven is more or less self-explanatory and of course you go from one end to the other: either you are single or you are in a relationship. But what if you’re in between? What if you don’t know where you are? What if the…


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Make yourself scarce — the three-day rule If you’ve only met a woman, you have to wait three days before you get in touch or, after the first date, you have to wait three days before you get in touch. There is hardly a man to whom his friends or his older brother or cousin have not taught this “wisdom”. What is worse, so many do too. You have probably met a man or several who believe this is the way to seduce a woman. I know that I’ve gotten to know more than enough of them. You know how…


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Each of us has had this terrible onslaught of emotions that a breakup creates.

Although every relationship ending is difficult, it is especially difficult for us when we are the ones who are being abandoned. The fact that our loved one no longer sees us as a life partner or best friend hurts, as if someone had torn our hearts out of our chests and trampled it with all their might. We are torn between our reason, which tells us to pull ourselves together, and our heart, which does not let us get over it. We understand that breaking up…


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Through schooling and growing up, one has heard the terms Oedipus complex and father complex. The Oedipus complex is deeply anchored in human history and we cannot get rid of it that easily. Over time, everyone got used to the fact that the mother-son relationship is characterized by it, and that most sons suffer from a mother complex.

Every woman who comes into her life has certain similarities with her mother and it isn’t uncommon for her own friend to be compared to her mother. It isn’t uncommon for female partners to be selected for the relationship life after the…


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To have a funny, spontaneous, always adventurous and fun person in your life sounds interesting, doesn’t it? But what if you can’t trust the same person when commitment, respect and compromise are foreign words for that person? Can you imagine having an argument with a grown man and suddenly he turns around and ignores you? It starts with passive-aggressive behavior and you just stand there and wonder if you are talking to a child .He lived on the island of Neverland and together with the lost boys he fought against pirates.

He could even fly, thus bringing other children who…


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When you look at the words hate and love, each of us knows that they are opposites. Neither of us would use these two terms to describe the emotions of the same person. Because if you like someone, you can’t hate them, can you? Our parents, siblings and teachers taught us that from an early age. But in the course of life one hears the term love-hate relationship more and more often. Can it really happen that you can fall in love and hate someone at the same time? …

Ella Wats

I write about the end of humanity. Canadian. Writer. Believer.

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